Why remarriage shouldn’t be judged
For a society that is so quick to ask, “When are you getting married?” it’s surprisingly slow to address an equally important question, “Why don’t you remarry?” Even recently, actress Samantha Ruth Prabhu’s second marriage sparked conversations—not because she chose love again, but because society still treats remarriage like something unusual. Yet the truth is simple: everyone deserves a second chance in love. In fact, sometimes the real love story starts only after you have been hurt, grown through it, healed, and finally learnt your true worth. Remarriage might be seen as a do-over by many, but in all reality, it is a comeback
For a society that is so quick to ask, “When are you getting married?” it’s surprisingly slow to address an equally important question, “Why don’t you remarry?” Finding love and a relationship after divorce or losing a spouse often sits in the blind spot of society. And that’s not all; remarriage usually comes wrapped in judgment. But the truth is simple: everyone deserves a second chance in love. In fact, sometimes the real love story starts only after you have been hurt, grown through it, healed, and finally learnt your true worth. Remarriage might be seen as a do-over by many, but in all reality, it is a comeback.
Experience only makes relationships richer. People seeking second chances possess something rare: they have emotional clarity. They have been through enough to know what they want and what works. They know their non-negotiables, how to deal with conflicts without exploding, and most importantly, they now know how to love someone without losing themselves in the process. Their journey, however unpleasant, brings the kind of maturity that makes remarriage feel far more grounded than the first time around.
Moreover, getting to a point where you can consider remarriage requires a significant amount of strength and healing, and that deserves applause, not raised eyebrows. Yet people treat remarriages suspiciously, failing to understand that opening your heart for love again takes courage, especially if the first marriage ended on a bitter note.
Society never tires of questioning a person’s choice to remarry, but the reality of the choice is more nuanced than just finding a companion. It is not letting yourself be defined by one failed relationship and giving life itself another chance.
Again, contrary to popular belief, divorced singles with kids shared that remarriage has not negatively impacted their children. In fact, it has given them a more secure environment, and watching their parents re-establish a healthy relationship even after one failed, taught them that a failed marriage does not set their fate, and life can always be rebuilt from scratch. 2 in 5 single mothers revealed that their remarriage taught their kids the value of their own happiness over societal pressure.
Rebounce’s Founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, “It is time that the narrative is reframed. Shame associated with remarriage is extremely outdated. If anything, it shows immense emotional strength. Over 33% of divorced singles looking for a second chance always mention that when they consider remarriage, the first things they think about are hope and growth. We strongly need normal conversations around second marriages and apps that can offer a safe and inclusive platform for all to seek that second chance without judgment.”
Take for example the real-life story of Samantha Ruth Prabhu. After her divorce, she didn’t let societal scrutiny define her worth. Instead, she chose to open her heart again — marrying filmmaker Raj Nidimoru in a quiet, heartfelt ceremony. Her courage to seek love again, publicly and unapologetically, stands as a powerful reminder that remarriage isn’t a fallback — it’s a fresh start. If anything, Samantha’s choice shows how embracing a second chance with dignity and self-respect can become an inspiration for many.
