Ensure you look stylish

As women we have so much on our plates, between the demands of motherhood and the time constraints of our careers, that dressing in a way that makes us feel both confident and stylish seems like an unattainable goal. But it's not!

Have you ever noticed that there are some women who have a consistent quality about them that feels both effortless and perfectly polished? You get the impression that the way they dress just comes naturally, and what feels impossible to you looks like an innate skill they possess.

If you want to learn how to look more stylish and put-together without having to invest in an entirely new wardrobe, the secret can be found in a few key rules.

Here are some tips that work regardless of your size, budget or aesthetic, that will help you automate your wardrobe and take the confusion out of what to wear.

HOW YOU WANT TO SHOW UP IN THE WORLD

The clothing you wear is an extension of who you are. It should strengthen your image and be an expression of your true self, so don't force it. This means not wedging your feet into 5-inch stilettos that require an hour foot massage at the end of the workday if you're more comfortable in flats or wearing the latest trends just because all of your friends are. Wear clothing that feels like you.

If you're unsure how you feel in something, take the authenticity test by asking yourself 3 simple questions: Does the outfit feel comfortable or will I be constantly adjusting it? Do I recognize myself in the mirror or am I trying to be someone I'm not? Does this clothing bring me joy and am I excited to wear it? If you answer yes to all 3, you're good to go! If not, look for another option.

DON'T PRIORITISE FASHION OVER COMFORT

When it comes to style tips for women, this one is a non-negotiable.

If torn between style and comfort, always opt for what feels the best. When you're uncomfortable or restricted in any way, you're not able to exude power. The old adage that beauty is pain is not a reality we should ascribe to. As women, we juggle busy careers on top of child rearing and family life. The last thing we need to worry about is spending an 8-hour workday in a dress that sucks the life out of us or jeans that feel too restricting. There's always an alternative, equally as stylish option, that we can find.

IDENTIFY YOUR INSPIRATION

Whether it's celebrities, politicians, TV characters, or co-workers, make a list of individuals you view as consistently well-dressed. Getting clear on who you look up to helps you better identify what your preferences are as you build a unique personal style of your own.

This exercise can often feel difficult. As creatures of habit, it's challenging to envision ourselves wearing something other than what we're familiar with. For the time being, ignore the natural hesitation to step outside your comfort zone and instead focus on what appeals to you.

SHOP YOUR SHAPE

Understanding your body shape is a key piece in successfully achieving a great sense of personal style. When you know which cuts and silhouettes work best for your body, you eliminate a lot of the confusion around what to wear and a closet filled with items that go unworn.

The most important part about developing your style is choosing clothing you feel great in – and there's nothing that feels better than wearing clothing that enhances your body.